HISTORY OF GFE’s involvement in Family
History-Through his MAW, Eliza Ellis ms Forrest
NB-According to GFE’s Mum [MAW], who got GFE
interested in Family History, Mainly because, GFE, had no real idea of any of
his fore-bearers. It struck GFE, that if his two girls wanted to know of their
background, in Scotland as well as Australia, then GFE needed to bone up on the
family. Not only did GFE not know much about his side of the family [the Ellis/Forrest’s,
et al,], he knew even less of his wife. Eleanor Polland’s side of
Polland/Cameron/Craig/et al ‘clan’
However,
fortunately, GFE’s Maw, Eliza Ellis ms Forrest, had
migrated to us in Sydney, after GFE’s dad, George Reid Ellis, died.
Maw,
on our regular talks, would tell me of all of the family history, which, if you
look back on history, it was mainly ‘oral’, not written. Only the rich could
afford ‘writers’ to cement, ‘their claims to heritage’.
At the same time, or thereabouts, GFE was made
aware that a cousin, whom he had never met. Mary Johnstone [her maiden name,
married to an ‘Englishman, John [Surname. -forgotten] banker-all of this needs
checked out!]
NB –The following is a transcript of May’s information
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*Info From May [christened Mary] Johnstone, of
Melbourne[Born in Scotland, Saltcoats?].
See the following transcript of Her letter of 7/3/1989
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- My mother [Mary Reid Johnstone ms
Ellis] left an engagement ring to Alison [May's Daughter] in an envelope. On
the envelope was written - 'Beloved Alison this really belongs to your mother
in a sense. She is Mary, my father was so pleased we called her after her
Gran he gave her a pram. My mother was called after her grand-mother Mary
Reid the owner of this ring, love Gran.”
that my
Grandmothers antecedents were
unknown.
I also had a vague memory which may not
even be correct of visiting Torphichen and visiting an old woman in a free
standing cottage with an overgrown garden.'
I obviously did not listen
properly because until I found that ring in my mothers few possessions I had
the view, that it was just hearsay
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NOTE from GFE-
It is assumed that my Great Grannie Mary Reid, was
illegitimate, given the birth information of that time.
So presumably when she married her name would not remain
Reid. Also I have a dim memory of MAW telling me my Gt Grandmother’s, mothers
name was Mary Scotland and there was a belief in my mind that Grandpa had
rescued my Grandmother from an orphanage
[According to the local
information, she was in Torphichen ‘District’orphanage]. [gfe]
Hence GFE’s interest in family history, was
gaining information, he never ever dreamed how important it was. Important
enough for the rich and the gentry to have all of their family history
delineated as a means of proving their lineage in property settlements and other
such legal needs.
Now, GFE, thinks that if it’s good enough
for the landed gentry to have family history recognised as a means of proving
ownership, then it was guid enough for the ‘peasant class’, to have the same!!
But most of all, the fun was in the chase
of lineage, just simply for the sake of knowledge. And, what’s more researching
a history of life of the family.
22nd January 2019
G. F. Ellis
NOTES-Dad died in 21 Jan 1971.
Eleanor and I and the wains, Lisa Maree and
Dianne Lynne Ellis lived in Sydney, at 21? Queen St, Beaconsfield when Dad
died. We never knew of Dad’s death,
except for a fortuitous stroke of luck.
Because of the UK Postal strike, Maw was
able to give a written message to Jean? McFarlane, who was a daughter of Mr.
Duncan and Mrs Jean McFarlane of 23 Gateside Avenue [and in the British Army,
at that time in Germany] She was home on leave. And, because there was no postal
strike in Germany, when she returned, Jean was able to send Maw’s letter
informing us of my dad’s death.
Eleanor and I went down to Beaconsfield
Post Office, trying to get a message back to Maw to say that we got her letter
via Jean. But to no avail. we could not send letters to Britain
I was very distraught and was crying my
eyes out.
But, ‘Out of BAD comes GOOD’, as someone
stated.
Eventually the postal strike finished and
my memory of Phoning Maw, to the next door neighbours of Maw’s in Gateside
Avenue, was of Maw EMPHATICALLY saying yes, when Eleanor, asked Maw, if she
would like to migrate to Sydney, under the Whitlam, ‘Family Reunion Plan’.
Eleanor and I can still remember the VERY
EMPHATIC ‘YES’, THAT CAME DOWN THAT PHONE LINE.
And that’s why; I think that Maw lived such
a long life. Because, Dad’s death released Maw from her hard life.
Not that Maw complained, as she was a very
compliant sole, in the scheme of things. She just kept on keeping on, under
very trying circumstances.
Our girls got a ‘hielan grannie’, as Darby
Munro, my erstwhile great Cessnock tech teacher mate, would oft state.
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